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Listen we all have first date jitters. And for guys, getting that second date can be difficult if you don’t step up to the plate. Which is why we asked Ramiro from the Second Date Update podcast to tell us what are some go-to products every guy needs to prepare for the first date.

Spa Gift Set for Men

spa gift set for men
So, you don’t smell like garbage. This set has everything you need. 2-1 Hair & Body Moisturizing Wash, Nourishing Bath Soap, Hydrating Body Lotion, Exfoliating Body Scrub, Detoxing Bath Salts, Pouf, and a case to store it all.

Grab it from Amazon.

Facial Hair Grooming Kit

facial hair grooming kit

So, you don’t look like you might have a small bird’s nest on your face. 12 different attachments so you can take care of anything.

Order one here.

Diarrhea Medication

pepto diarrhea liquid tabs

So, you won’t have to immediately leave. Let’s be honest it’s just good to always have on hand.

Grab it here.


prada cologne

Because it’s cologne and you need it. It doesn’t really matter what kind, but we like this one a lot. It has an undernote of Vanilla, which is a safe bet for any girl you pick up.

Snag a bottle here.

Getting Past Your Breakup Self-Help Book

getting past your breakup by susan j elliott

A book on getting over a breakup. Before you venture out with a new girl, make sure you’ve taken the time to give this a read-through. Just in case the last girl did a number on you.

Buy it from Amazon.

What Women Want In A Man Self-Help Book

what women want in a man book

A book on what women want in a man. While you’re brushing up on your reading, this one couldn’t hurt.

Get it now on Amazon.

Tide Sticks

tide to go sticks

For last-minute stains. This can be helpful during dinner, especially if you spill something on yourself.

Grab a couple here.

Resistance Bands

tribe resistance bands

To keep yourself tight and right. Staying active and fit can be important for the ladies. This kit comes with multiple bands and a booklet to help you plan your workout routine.

Order them here.

Liquid IV

liquid IV tablets

To help with hangovers. Perfect for the morning after. These go right into your water and give you an electrolyte boost.

Get it on Amazon.

Teeth Whitening Kit

teeth whitening kit
So, your mouth doesn’t make them run away. This kit comes with an easy-to-use whitening pen and LED mouth light to help with whitening. It helps to remove stains from coffee, smoking, wines, soda, and food.

Buy it from Amazon.

Patterned Dress Socks

patterned dress socks

Because shoes don’t go well with white tube socks. And let’s be honest, you need a pair of these in your arsenal anyway. They’re more versatile than just date night.

Snag a pair here.

A Tshirt

hug me i'm vaccinated and still single t-shirt
To advertise your availability.

Order one here.


trojan condoms

And finally, condoms. If we have to spell this one out for you…  

Grab a box from Amazon.

If you’ve already secured the first date you’re halfway to success! We hope these items help you get that second date. And if you’re looking to hear some first date horror stories to caution you on what not to do, check out Ramiro on the Second Date Update podcast here.

Please note that items are in stock and prices are accurate at the time we published this list. Have an idea for a fun theme for a gift idea list you’d like us to create?  Drop us a line at