The lead up to a first date can be exciting, but stressful so if you want it to be a success, consider this your first date survival guide and the top 5 places to avoid on a first date in Florida.
Embarking on a first date in Southwest Florida is like venturing into the wild jungles of the dating world. You never know what strange creatures you’ll encounter or what obstacles you’ll face. Not to mention how many times you’ll wish you had a machete to cut through the awkwardness. I have a few friends who are actively dating here in Fort Myers and let’s just say, I’m glad I’m taking a break.
There are many layers to the first date. What do I wear? How much do I reveal about myself? Do I walk them to the door at the end of the night? A kiss goodnight? You may not even get that far if you don’t pick a good place for the first date to go down. In fact, searches for “first date ideas” have risen by 80% in Florida, so it’s a question on many people’s minds.
Greetings card marketplace, thortful, polled 2,000 people about their idea of the worst place for a first date. Here are some places you might want to avoid.
Top 5 Places to Avoid for a First Date in Florida:
Escape Room
You’ll probably be able to tell what someone is like under stress and in a tough situation, but the idea of not being able to escape from someone you don’t know very well doesn’t sound fun. 25% of respondents said this would be their worst idea of a first date.
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An Invite to Watch the Other Person Do Something
This actually sounds terrible. Coming in the #2 spot, 27% of people said this is the worst. I can’t imagine being invited to watch someone play a sport or run a marathon. Maybe to support them after a relationship starts, but as a first date? No thank you.
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Climbing/Bouldering
Overall, climbing or bouldering made it to the number three spot of places to avoid on a first date. Not that we have many places to do that outdoors here in Florida, 27% of men voted it as their worst idea for a first date.
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A Long Hike
Sounds like a more casual stroll is preferred over a long, sweaty hike. In fact, 40% of those polled said a nice walk would be great! And here, a walk on the beach would make for a great setting.
Karaoke/Open Mic Night
More like Kara-no-ke. Could be a place to see a real personality come through and find out if they’re fun and outgoing or more shy and reserved, but 20% said it’s a no-go.
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